Online girl abuse

[Boba.Fatt]

I have been monitoring this topic and I strongly feel that it will work itself out in the end. To this point, nothing has been deleted or edited. Let's all sit back and watch the great gift of communication settle all scores! :P

F! I was just about to lock it... -Snoman

[YoursTruly]

Originally Posted by BMORE

Here we go again with more people who did not read the original post. If you 2 would have read the original post it stated, " I don't care if you are a girl, boy or what ever i'm still going to give you $hit if you suck". Do you understand what that means? I did not point to any particular sex. If you feel that this remark, "S2, S3 are competitive so if you can't take the heat get back in the kitchen and make me something to eat B1TCH" was for a woman then you must have some personal issues of your own. Kitchen and B1TCH are universal words that are not for one sex.... You may need some help with your own self esteem.


Thanks for your advice on women but you don't have to hear it form a women to know that. As you said in your statement this is a public forum and I did post my opinion. If he did not like what I said he should have asked me about it instead he started flaming...



I understand that it is not allow but I did it anyway. If we are to stick by the rules then spike should not have start off by speaking the way he did in he post about another person in the forum. If they want to boot me that is fine but spike should get the same repercussion. The rule stands no matter how harsh the flaming is.


There has been no disrespect of women in any of my post. Due to the fact that your boy spike did not read the post correctly, he bashed someone who was being general instead of specific. The thing that kills me is that you took the joke as pertaining to women. You should kick yourself in your own A$$ for for thinking that a comment like that was for you. You must feel that way about women and yourself to put the two together. Think about it..............

I could care less what your original post said. I didn't quote your original post to reply to it. Had I had a problem with your original post I would've replied to it. You DID make a disrespectful "joke" directed toward women so don't try to weasel your way out of it now. I can tell by your defensive attitude that you have a horrid personality. Spike didn't lower himself to your level by cursing at you to get his point across. There is a civilized way to communicate with your fellow human beings and until you learn how... I don't care to discuss anything with you because you have no opinion I care to hear. You've only proven to me that you lack the intelligence, compassion or general common sense to deserve my respect. Welcome to my ignore list.

1) A b*tch is a FEMALE dog
2) I doubt you're old enough to remember it but "a woman's place is in the kitchen" has been around for ages so of course anyone would come to the conclusion that you were referring to women... unless you'd rather have a man in the "woman's place" in your home.
3) I make more money than you, my man and anyone else I know. I have no insecurities about who i am or what my role is. AND I could most likely own you at this game. So sit down El Nino. No one needs you blowing your hot air around here.

[Chops-Socom]

Originally Posted by Shroomish

I've seen this a lot lately. Why do people automatically make fun of someone as soon as they find out its a girl? Have you never been with a girl before? Do they always say no GO AWAY FREAK when you talk to them? Seriously, Lay off the ho, <font color="#FF0000">*censored*</font>, ect name calling crap. Girls are allowed to play socom just as much as boys. (no im not a girl I am just fond of them lol)

I don't know. All the girls i've seen sounds like little girls.

But anyway, all the dudes say when theres a girl in there like.. "Hey you wanna come to my pad and make kids".. i'm like wtf...

[BMORE]

Originally Posted by YoursTruly

I could care less what your original post said. I didn't quote your original post to reply to it. Had I had a problem with your original post I would've replied to it. You DID make a disrespectful "joke" directed toward women so don't try to weasel your way out of it now. I can tell by your defensive attitude that you have a horrid personality. Spike didn't lower himself to your level by cursing at you to get his point across. There is a civilized way to communicate with your fellow human beings and until you learn how... I don't care to discuss anything with you because you have no opinion I care to hear. You've only proven to me that you lack the intelligence, compassion or general common sense to deserve my respect. Welcome to my ignore list.

1) A b*tch is a FEMALE dog
2) I doubt you're old enough to remember it but "a woman's place is in the kitchen" has been around for ages so of course anyone would come to the conclusion that you were referring to women... unless you'd rather have a man in the "woman's place" in your home.
3) I make more money than you, my man and anyone else I know. I have no insecurities about who i am or what my role is. AND I could most likely own you at this game. So sit down El Nino. No one needs you blowing your hot air around here.

I think that it is very funny and pretty shallow that you would post something as stupid as, " I make more money than you, my man and anyone else I know". Do you think that I care? You don't even know me so how do you know how much money I make? Pretty pathetic!!! Next time stick to the subject. This just shows your ignorance and immaturity. I'm not trying to weasel my way out of anything. You are trying to make excuses so that you don't put your foot in your mouth but too late. You seem to be a little angry by the tone of your post. The truth is a B1tch. Thank you for putting me on your list. Hopefully I will see you in the S2, S3 world and watch you attempt to own me. Welcome to my B!TCH list...

1) Thanks for the info...
2) Well at least you know your place. I am 100% positive that any person, place or thing would be better than you in anyone's kitchen. Just judging by your picture that you posted and your attitude...
3) Good for you. It is great to know that you are an independent women. I will not try to degrade you by saying ignorant things like you must be a call girl or working the block. I don't think that you would be very successful in those industries. I will say good luck in all you do. You're going to need it. If you would like to own me just PM me and I will make it happen. Have a wonderful day

Don't double post. -Snoman

[Saints-Soldier]

Abuse can get pretty bad especially on canadians, african americans, girls, mexicans, and even religions. And there is nothing u can do about it if u dont like what someone is saying mute them off thats what I do.

[Warpig79]

You know its interesting that we are here about abuse of women on socom. As well as trying to find a way to police it. Yet here it happens on a forum why don't you just grow up. Truly is my wife and she knows her place and it is at my side. Its funny how guys think they are so superior. Well I've learned alot of things from my wife. She is a very smart woman and I respect her. I think some of you people just need to grow up.

[BMORE]

Originally Posted by Warpig79

You know its interesting that we are here about abuse of women on socom. As well as trying to find a way to police it. Yet here it happens on a forum why don't you just grow up. Truly is my wife and she knows her place and it is at my side. Its funny how guys think they are so superior. Well I've learned alot of things from my wife. She is a very smart woman and I respect her. I think some of you people just need to grow up.

In my original post I was not pointing fingers. I was simply saying that this is a game and a competitive one. If you are here to cry about everything that happens in the game then you should not play it. I know that this is not the way it came out in my first post but that is what I was trying to say.
I was in a different mood that day so that was how I wrote it. Then some jacka$$ tries to bash me for stating my opinion.(spike) Well it pissed me off so I decided to let him know. All of the sudden Truly post on the subject by telling me that in a round about way my opinion means nothing and spike is a savior. I do not get on this site to beat down people with words. I am here on the site to join in interesting conversations about a game that we all love. I don't know your wife and I am sure she means well by defending spike. My problem with that is she never let that person back up their stupid comment that was made on my post. My bashing was not meant for her nor was the original post. It was a general statement telling all who cry about issues that will never be resolved to be the bigger person and leave the room or vote the person out. Again, I did not say it that way but if you read into it you will understand. Truly should not have posted on a flaming post that was not for her. Truly brought herself into the situation when all she had to do was stay out of it. I am not going to say anymore negative things towards your wife and I apologize to you and you only. I did not mean to disrespect your wife but she put herself in the middle. What would you do if you were having an argument with your wife and some person walk up and told you that what you were saying did not mean $hit. I am pretty sure that you would have a few choice words for that person. If not then that is you but me, I would let them know what i think. Anyway you have my apology and I will leave it at that...

[Warpig79]

First and formost this is a forum. Which means that whoever wants to post has that right. Secondly you are correct you have the right to post and state your opinion. I do not agree with your retort on the way my wife looks that was very disrespectful not only towards her but me. My wife is 29 years old has had 2 children and looks better than any woman her age that has been through what she has. Before you start to attack someone on thier looks perhaps you should show yourself so you can back up what your trying to say. Yes I would intervene if someone was saying something I didn't agree with but I would not do so in a manor that makes me look like I have no idea what I'm talking about or unintelligent by useing swearing and negative words. There are ways of solving situations without those actions. I myself was a U.S. Marine and have seen combat and have been used just as humanitarian aid. Some people just do not think before they act.

Another thing I'd like to add is this. I know without a doubt my wife has one of the highest paying jobs in NW Arkansas. She doesn't need to know you to know these things. Yes it might not compare to some areas but thats because of the cost of living is more. She also tested higher on the ASVAB than most military members I served with. She felt it was her right to post on this board to state her opinion. If your not aware of the term b*tch being derrogatory towards women then I'd suggest you look it up. I'd be willing to think that your an unhappy person. Just because my wife plays video games and likes to do guy things with me doesn't mean that she doesn't know her place and her duties as a wife. She does cook and very well and SHE IS MINE not anyone else's. So your comment on her being on your b*tch list was disrespectful and demeaning.

Regardless of your mood or attitude you should think before you act. Sounds to me you think only of yourself. If that is the way you are I'm glad your not a military member cause you'd get me killed.

[AL GIORDINO]

Yo doodz first of all...

MY GIRLFRIEND CAN BEAT UP YOUR GIRLFRIEND!

Second of all...

THIS IS HOW STUPID YOU ALL SOUND!

[BMORE]

Originally Posted by Warpig79

First and formost this is a forum. Which means that whoever wants to post has that right. Secondly you are correct you have the right to post and state your opinion. I do not agree with your retort on the way my wife looks that was very disrespectful not only towards her but me. My wife is 29 years old has had 2 children and looks better than any woman her age that has been through what she has. Before you start to attack someone on their looks perhaps you should show yourself so you can back up what your trying to say. Yes I would intervene if someone was saying something I didn't agree with but I would not do so in a manor that makes me look like I have no idea what I'm talking about or unintelligent by useing swearing and negative words. There are ways of solving situations without those actions. I myself was a U.S. Marine and have seen combat and have been used just as humanitarian aid. Some people just do not think before they act.

Another thing I'd like to add is this. I know without a doubt my wife has one of the highest paying jobs in NW Arkansas. She doesn't need to know you to know these things. Yes it might not compare to some areas but thats because of the cost of living is more. She also tested higher on the ASVAB than most military members I served with. She felt it was her right to post on this board to state her opinion. If your not aware of the term b*tch being derrogatory towards women then I'd suggest you look it up. I'd be willing to think that your an unhappy person. Just because my wife plays video games and likes to do guy things with me doesn't mean that she doesn't know her place and her duties as a wife. She does cook and very well and SHE IS MINE not anyone else's. So your comment on her being on your b*tch list was disrespectful and demeaning.

Regardless of your mood or attitude you should think before you act. Sounds to me you think only of yourself. If that is the way you are I'm glad your not a military member cause you'd get me killed.

I thought about what you said and that is why you got a apology from me. I am married and I know how I would feel if someone said some of the thing that I said. BUT...If you read through the post I did not say anything negative towards your wife until she tried to degrade me. If telling her that she might have some personal issues of her own is ignorant, well.....That is how I took it. I did not get personal with your wife until she took it personal with me. I do not need to post any pictures to prove anything about myself. If you feel the need be my guess. Proving my looks is retarded. You have to remember beauty is only in the eye of the beholder. How does it look like I did not know what I was talking about? I wanted to let spike know that he did not mean $hit to me. I knew exactly what I was talking about and saying. You speak of the military and combat. Why? Who cares. This site has nothing to do with the military. It is about a video game. That's all. If you want to bring in talk about the military go to a military forum or post about it in a different area in this forum. To me it seems like the both of you have to build yourselves up for creditability purposes. You can think that I am unhappy and what ever else you want, it will not affect my life. You do things your way and I do things my way. That is life. If someone wants to dish out negativity but cannot take when it is thrown back in there face, then learn to stay out of others business. If you want to post back please do. If not I am more than happy to be over this subject.